How to Win Friends on the Court: Your Guide to Open-Play Etiquette
How to Win Friends on the Court: Your Guide to Open-Play Etiquette
If you’re new to pickleball, you’ve probably heard people talk about “open play.” Think of it as community drop-in time: players of all ages and skill levels show up, paddles go in a stack, and games rotate quickly so everyone gets a chance to play. You never really know who you’ll end up across the net from—or alongside—and that’s part of what makes it fun.
Pickleball is more than just a game—it’s a community. And nowhere does that come to life more than during open play.
Courts full of strangers quickly become courts full of teammates, partners, and even friends. To make the most of the experience, it helps to know the unwritten rules that keep the games flowing and the atmosphere welcoming.
Here’s your guide to stepping in with confidence.
Paddle Stacks: First Come, First Serve
When you arrive, you’ll usually see paddles lined up at the edge of the net or tucked into holders. This is the sign-up sheet of the court. Place your paddle at the back of the line, and when it’s your turn, you’ll rotate in. It’s a simple, fair system that ensures everyone gets time on the court. Cutting the stack may seem small, but trust us—people notice. Following the order shows respect for the group.
Partner Swaps: Mix It Up
One of the best parts of open play is variety. Don’t feel like you need to stick with the same partner all afternoon. After a game, swap sides, try teaming up with a different player, or jump in with someone new. It’s how you improve your game and meet more people. Switching partners keeps things fresh and helps balance skill levels so matches stay fun and competitive.
Calling In and Out: Play It Clean
In open play, clear and honest line calls go a long way. If a ball is close and you’re unsure, give your opponent the point. The goal here isn’t to squeeze out every win—it’s to play fair and earn respect. Consistency and honesty will make people want to play with you again, and you’ll build a reputation as someone who makes the game better for everyone.
Keep It Moving: Games to 11
Because open play is about rotation, most games are played to 11 points (win by 2). This helps keep matches moving and gives everyone a chance to get on the court. If the courts are especially crowded, you might see shorter games to 9 or even 7. The best approach is to be flexible—respect the crowd waiting their turn, and keep the flow moving so no one is left sitting too long.
Bring the Right Energy
The fastest way to win friends on the court isn’t a perfect drop shot—it’s your energy. Cheer for great points on both sides, laugh off mistakes, and always thank your partner after a game. A positive, easygoing presence goes further than any single shot you hit. Remember, open play is less about the scoreboard and more about creating a welcoming environment where everyone wants to play again.
The spirit of pickleball is found in casual games that bring people together. Once you understand the flow and follow the etiquette, you’ll find yourself not only improving your game but also walking away with new partners, new friends, and a stronger connection to the sport.
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